Men Should - Kenyatta University Directorate of Security Services

Men Should:
Use common sense. Realize that you do not have the right to force a woman to have sex just because you paid for her dinner or drinks.
Accept a woman’s decision when she says, “No” do not interpret it as a challenge
Avoid clouding your judgement and understanding of what another person wants by using alcohol or drugs.
Do not assume that a woman wants to have sex just because she is drinking heavily, the way she dresses, or agrees to go home with you.
Never have sex with anyone who is passed out.
Do not assume that just because a woman has had sex with you previously she is willing to have sex with you again.
Do not assume that if a woman consents to kissing or other sexual intimacies she is willing to have sexual intercourse.
Realize that forcing a woman to have sex against her will is rape, a crime with serious consequences.
Never be drawn into a gang rape. Be prepared to resist pressure from friends to participate.
If you see a woman in trouble at a party or a male friend using a force or pressuring a woman, do not be afraid to intervene. Your intervention may prevent the woman from the trauma of sexual assault or not to mention preventing your friend from the ordeal of criminal repercussions
Ask yourself how sexual stereotypes affect your attitudes and actions toward women..